“nothing…..whatever” quote bahaya wanita

Men always want to be right, but women sabotage their success.

Bukan hanya “that’s okay…” malahan kata-kata seperti “nothing…whatever” adalah quote bahaya dari seorang wanita.

“nothing…”

Dr. John Gray, author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus, best sums it up: “Men have their own caves on which the sign states “Please do not disturb.” Men like to retreat into their own world where they feel they are in control. Women also have caves but the sign on their caves is “I need to talk”. When a man asks a woman what’s wrong and she says “Nothing” it really means “Nothing, unless you care to listen and give me an opportunity to talk.” Of course, there is also the dangerous side of “nothing”. Do you remember Homer Simpson’s words of wisdom? When a woman says nothing’s wrong that means everything’s wrong. The “Nothing Syndrome” is the calm before the avalanche of complaints.

Bila mereka kata “nothing” yang sebenarnya adalah ‘something’ yang mereka tidak puas hati. Kecuali jika kaum lelaki ingin mendengar segala penjelasannya dan berbincang bersamanya, tetapi segala keputusan terletak di tangannya.

“whatever…”

Whatever…a classic among classics, a verbal weapon used by both men and women. When a woman says “whatever” during a fight, it means that she doesn’t want to talk to you anymore, because you are pathetic. At this point you should be VERY worried. She has two words for you: screw you! Women make noises (including yelling) to get attention. When stress strikes and her main hormones – Cortisol, Epinephrine, and Oxytocin – go crazy, don’t let her alone, even if she is pushing you away. On one hand, men have their own caves on which the sign states “Please do not disturb.” Men like to retreat into their own world where they feel they are in control. Women, on the other hand, also have caves but the sign on their caves is “I need to talk”. Whatever can be translated in some cases as: you disappointed me, it seems that I am not the same important to you as you are to me and it hurts.

Apa-apa ajelah…’whatever’ – woo…payah tu, bila perselisihan berlaku. Mereka tidak mahu perbualan ini berterusan kerana ia menyedihkan dan mengecewakan.
Maksudnya wanita merasakan dirinya seolah-olah tidak penting bagi kaum lelaki, tidak sama seperti apa yang ia rasakan lelaki itu penting di dalam hidupnya.

wanita bagaikan bunga, mutiara, simpanan yang tak musnah

Wanita adalah perhiasan dunia dan sebaik-baik perhiasan adalah wanita solehah. Jangan lupa juga dengan pepatah ini, disebalik kejayaan lelaki ada wanita berdiri dibelakangnya.

Berbahagialah bagi mereka yang memilih wanita solehah di dalam hidupnya. Mereka tidak sebiadap seperti kebanyakan wanita di luar sana . Ciri-ciri wanita solehah bertentangan dengan akhlak seperti yang dikenali selalunya – you know … ‘oh women – women are problem – I don’t understand women!!!’, from the man point of view.

Jika ada lelaki yang impikan wanita seperti ini, yang pertama harus ada pada dirinya ialah menghormati kaum wanita sebagaimana Rasulullah saw menghormati mereka. Jangan sesekali simpan dalam benak mereka bahawa seorang isteri hanya patut dengar dan taat. Zaman dah berubah dan semakin maju, begitu juga dengan wanita. Sesabar mana jua seseorang itu jika ia di pijak atau tidak dihormati,  bersedialah wahai orang-orang yang berkenaan  untuk menanggong akibatnya.

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Posted on February 13, 2013, in Excerpt/Petikan and tagged , , , . Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.

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